Pedoman Penting Saat Foreplay

AKTIVITAS seksual sebelum berhubungan badan yang disebut foreplay oleh sebagian besar ahli dalam bidang seks dikatakan tidak tepat karena tidak berarti apa-apa selain “pemanasan”. Tentu pemanasan hubungan seks. Kata foreplay memberi tekanan besar pada pria untuk memiliki penis yang mampu ereksi dan cenderung membawa kita berpikiran bahwa seks hanyalah sekedar hubungan badan. Demikian pendapat yang disampaikan Joel D. Block, PhD dalam bukunya yang berjudul “Secrets of Better Sex”.

Menurut Joel, istilah yang tepat untuk itu adalah “Loveplay”. Biasanya periode yang disebut ‘foreplay’ ini dianggap sebagai langkah yang harus dilakukan oleh seorang pria terhadap pasangan wanitanya supaya siap berhubungan seks karena pria dianggap selalu siap.

Kenyataannya, pria, terutama yang sudah lanjut usia sangat membutuhkan dan menginginkan loveplay sebelum atau selama hubungan seks.

Sebagai sebuah persiapan menuju hubungan badan yang sesungguhnya, foreplay akan lebih mampu meningkatkan gairah seksual bila dijalankan dengan benar.

Berikut ini lima petunjuk untuk Foreplay menurut Joel. D.Block:
1. Ingatlah bahwa seks dimulai di otak. Mulailah berpikir tentang saat-saat berhubungan seksual dan ceritakan pikiran Anda secara singkat, lebih bagus lewat sebuah gambar kepada pasangan Anda jika dapat. Bisa juga dengan symbol lain, misalnya mengirimkan setangkai bunga mawar ke kantornya

2. Perhatikan detail romantik. Siapkan suasana yang sedikit romantis. Pastikan ruangan cukup hangat, pencahayaan yang tepat, bau ruangan yang harum, pakaian dalam yang merangsang, dan sebagainya.

3. Perlahan-lahan. Mulailah dengan mencium (jangan langsung pada organ seks).

4. Berikan orgasme. Banyak wanita tidak mengalami orgasme saat berhubunga seksual. Sebagian wanita yang mengalami orgasme beberapa kali jauh lebih mungkin mendapatkan orgasme yang kedua atau ketiga selama berhubungan seksual jika mereka pernah mengalaminya.

5. Perhatikan zona erotik lain. Ada banyak zona erotik, misalnya putting, skrotum (pada pria) atau tempat-tempat lain seperti telinga, leher, dan sebagainya.

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Tips for Choosing Perfect Eyeglasses

For ones who have vision problem, choosing the perfect eyeglasses is very important for a number of reasons. First of all, the frame must fit your face properly. Everyone's face is different in shape and size, so the eyeglasses have to cover the eyes properly. Second, the eyeglasses do not look right if their color and their shape are not correct, making them look odd on a person's face. Another reason to have eyeglasses that are perfect is because glasses are not really so dreadful to wear nowadays. They have become smaller, but individuals do adapt to their small size in a short period of time.

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Homeschool Teachers

Parents naturally make good teachers. After all, the first lessons that a young child learns is usually what he has observed and imitated from his parents as young children look up to their parents as people who never go wrong. That is why in homeschooling, the participation of parents is highly recommended. However, this does not realistically happen all the time as some parents may be too busy with work to be the homeschool teacher. In any case, the success of homeschooling depends greatly on a good teacher- parents, being natural candidates.

Teaching is not just about being able to pass as much information to the child. Learning, in a lot of ways, is greatly anchored on the emotional reception of the child. Lessons have to be tenderly incorporated into the child's daily life for him to truly absorb and be able to apply them. Parents' natural gift of charisma to their own children comes into the picture. More so, their patience and natural concern to teach their child is very essential. Grandparents, because of their patient & tender nature, also make good teachers.

As your child's teacher, it's natural for you to have certain fears, especially that you know your child's future depends on your directly, more than ever. Don't be afraid if you know you don't know everything. Nobody does. But the good news is that there are always readily available materials online and in your community to help you learn what's needed. As a first timer, you may be tempted to settle for commercial resources, which is natural and advisable, as well. There are also ready-made softwares that can help you in logging and recording your child's progress.

Local support groups can't just provide you with the information you need but also, with the personal and moral support you'll need as a first time homeschooler. You will be able to meet experienced homeschool teachers who will be more than happy to give you tips and sources of effective homeschooling materials. Once you get the hang of teaching, you'll find out yourself how much of a natural-born good teacher parents become for the sake their child.

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